How to become popular on the Internet. Chats and Forums

Of course, you will have to put in a little effort, but today the situation is exactly like this: the global web gives you more opportunities than ever to become a star. Particularly convenient platforms for promotion are social networks. Even stars of the first magnitude today pay no less, and sometimes even more attention, to their pages and groups “VKontakte”, “Odnoklassniki” or “Mail.ru” than to their official sites and forums. Because it is on social networks that the largest concentration of the target audience is observed.

How to become an Internet star

So, you decided to conquer the Internet. Go for it! But first, create a page for yourself on one of the popular resources. However, now almost everyone has a page on one of the above-mentioned sites. You just need to unwind.

How to become an Internet star? In order to be noticed by the maximum number of people, feel free to join the groups “The Most Beautiful”, “The Most Stylish”, etc. and post your photos there. But remember! Photos should be catchy and bright - because you have to be noticed. It is not necessary to have a portfolio with professional photo shoots; you can take a photo of yourself with your phone camera. The main thing is that individuality is visible. Just don’t be another blonde who has sunbathed in a solarium and takes pictures of her reflection in the mirror. You should be discussed. Don't pay attention to negative comments. Unfortunately, there are a great many people on the Internet who want to take out their bad mood on someone.

Be philosophical about this. After all, if you decide to become super popular, more than one fly in the ointment will certainly be added to your ointment. Don’t pay attention to spiteful critics and continue to actively post your photos in interesting groups. You will see how rapidly the number of people who want to start a virtual friendship with you will begin to grow.

Another way to become a famous star is to make friends with people already promoted on the Internet. Chat with them, comment on photos, leave marks on the wall. People who are part of the network stars' circle of friends automatically attract attention.

If you act correctly, soon thousands, and perhaps even tens of thousands of people will want to become your friends. Naturally, when the number of friends grows alarmingly, you can be confused at first, but then you gradually adapt and learn to competently maneuver in the ocean of virtual friends and fans.

If you understand how to become an Internet star, wait for interesting offers from real life.

After all, you are already a promoted character, and promoted on your own. And this skill is very highly valued in our time.

Success stories, or how I became famous

Sabina Perkello(19)

“Be simpler, and people will be drawn to you!”

For me it all started with blogs on mail.ru. Even as a teenager, I wrote there about my thoughts and feelings. Then the VKontakte website became popular, and I started a page there. But even now, after two or three years that I have been on VKontakte and despite the fact that I am called “one of the most famous photo models” on VKontakte, I have not had a single professional photo shoot. Now it will be the first in my life. All photos posted on the Internet are purely amateur. Analyzing the situation, I still cannot say exactly what caused such interest in my person. I was probably unusual, bright, not like everyone else. Which, of course, caused people not only positive emotions towards me.

Soon I found myself not only in a virtual, but also in a real party. My photos from parties began to appear on various sites. I am a cheerful and sociable person, so I soon made some acquaintances among celebrities. They immediately began to attribute romances with stars to me, which stirred up a new wave of interest in me. Gossip, rumors, random photos posted online - all this worked for my popularity. However, the result of all this was sad. My page could not withstand the influx of people who wanted to be friends with me, it froze, and I could no longer access it.

I had to create a new page, and I wasn’t even surprised when another flurry of applications hit my new profile. No, I don’t suffer from virtual star fever, I don’t consider myself the most beautiful woman on the Internet. But I am charming and open and, I believe, it is these qualities that attract more and more new friends and fans to me. Naturally, my popularity also has the other side of the coin - it is an endless stream of negativity. But by opening a page on any resource, posting photos and videos, you yourself give a reason. In the end, no one is stopping me or any other popular girl from “closing” the page and communicating only with friends. My main weapon against ill-wishers is laughter and self-irony.

I am a leader by nature. I have an inner core. I very rarely complain to anyone. I can only ask advice in a difficult situation from a person who is authoritative for me. I'm not at all afraid to be funny. Perhaps this is another factor that attracts people to me.

Today I can probably say that “Sabina Perkello” is a brand, at least on the Internet, and not only. He is helping with my fledgling fashion business. I receive many offers. For example, I just took part in the filming of a music television show for one of the central channels. My partners on the set were the most famous representatives of Russian pop music.

There were many offers to go to work in Moscow, but I didn’t dare. Moreover, here I entered the University at the Faculty of Journalism. Now there is one television project in development that is interesting to me, where I have the role of presenter. I want to gain experience. I want to learn how to behave in front of the camera, and only then, perhaps, go to conquer the capital.

Anna Ermoshina(21)

"The stars helped me"

I used to work as a fashion model. There were a lot of beautiful professional photographs, and one of my friends asked why I wasn’t on mail.ru, Odnoklassniki, or Contact? I was a completely non-Internet person, but I thought: why not? And I started pages. I quickly began to gain popularity in Contact. Most likely, this happened because my photos were posted in the group “The most beautiful girls of contact.” From there, not only numerous friends reached out to me, but also quite business offers. For example, it was in this group that a Lenfilm employee noticed me. She invited me to audition, and for the third year in a row I have been starring in New Year's television shows. There was even a photo of me and Alla Borisovna Pugacheva on the cover of one entertainment magazine.

My albums contained many photographs of artists and famous people, which certainly attracted additional interest. Plus I am very open, I would even say naive. And this played a cruel joke on me. Some people knew that I had business correspondence with a serious person from Moscow. Then my ill-wishers, for their own purposes or just to mischief, hacked my page and completely destroyed all correspondence. They started sending negative messages to my friends from my page. It was an extremely unpleasant situation. My mother helped me a lot, she explained to me the reasons why people stoop so low.

Of course, my virtual popularity could not help but affect my very real life. Now, again with the help of my mother, I am opening my own beauty salon, and I know that a certain clientele is already guaranteed to me.

I am regularly invited to photo shoots. When I have time, I agree, but in general now I am faced with the task of successfully graduating from college, because I am a fifth-year student, and then getting an acting education in Italy. By the way, I lived in this beautiful country for several months. But even my departure to Italy will in no way prevent me from staying in touch with my friends in Contact. I think I will regularly delight them with new portions of wonderful photographs that made them love me so much!

Another story of how to become an Internet star

"The Star in Yourself"

I registered in Contact purely for practical reasons. In order not to waste money on telephone conversations with a friend from another city. There are about ten thousand posts on my wall. People send me friend requests all the time. I am often asked why my page is closed to public viewing? The fact is that I do not strive for nationwide Internet popularity and pay more attention to real life. I add as friends only those who are really interesting to me,

But, as they say, you can’t escape fate, and online fame still overtook me. Moreover, it spread far beyond the boundaries of Contact. It all started with Angelina Jolie. Or rather, from the group “Like Angelina Jolie.” It's no secret that now almost every girl dreams of being like Angelina. The group members often communicate very rudely and incorrectly with each other, and those photos of “Jolie-lookalikes” that they post can cause nothing but homeric laughter. One fine day I decided to play a little joke on the girls. I put on my makeup, styled my hair, sat down in front of the camera and, parodying Angelina’s signature moves, most often used by those who desperately want to be like her, said something like this to the camera: “Girls who love Jolie, please stop doing this, that and that.” so... I do this, do you understand?!” It took me a lot of effort not to laugh in front of the camera, it turned out so funny.

Gradually my video flooded the Internet. It even got to the point where they recorded a parody of my video!

I posted the video on my private page, naively believing that it was only for me and my friends. But it was not there. Someone made the video public, posted it in some group, and it gradually began to spread throughout Contact. I can't say I liked it. People didn't understand that it was a joke and took it seriously. Funny and offensive. Gradually my video flooded the Internet. It even got to the point where they recorded a parody of my video! It wasn't all that funny or original, but it was still fun to watch.

After the main wave of negativity subsided and people finally realized that my video was pure parody, I started receiving messages in batches asking me to record a sequel. I also received an offer to participate in a look-alike competition. They also offered to take part in a photo shoot for a famous men's magazine. But my moral principles did not allow me to agree to a candid photo shoot.

Everything I do always happens spontaneously, and not by order. If I want to remove another “bomb,” I will, no doubt about it. Everything has its time. I don't know if I want this kind of fame. Only if for your own pleasure. Now my energy is concentrated on studying.

My dream is to become the editor-in-chief of a women's publication. I don’t know, maybe my Internet fame will help me with this someday.

  • Be an individual. Come up with your own unique style. Don't try to be like someone else.
  • Post photos regularly and try to make them impressive and memorable.
  • Communicate with people simply. Don't be arrogant. Don’t be fooled by provocations, don’t descend into altercations.
  • In your statuses, constantly write to your friends how much you love them!
  • Know how to be funny and know how to laugh at yourself. It is advisable to have a whole album with funny photographs.
  • Have your own thing. For example, regularly write notes on current topics, create polls, or record videos. Your page should be full of virtual life!

Yulia Filonova
Photo: FOTOIMEDIA

Hello ladies and gentlemen.

I think almost everyone who surfs the Internet has dreamed of becoming popular at least once. Some didn't give up and made their dreams come true, others just gave up. And in truth, becoming famous with a good reputation on the Internet is quite difficult. But this does not mean that you just need to sculpt and fold your hands. In this article I will try to give useful advice on how and where to start the path of glory.

Own website.

If you decide to become famous, then it will be easier for you to do this with your own website. For example, you created a website and then filled it with some thematic things. Let's say music, videos, pictures. At the same time, the site should be beautifully decorated and should not violate the rules of the social agreement on order. Forum 2x2 constructor provides a free service for creating your own forums. You might think that the Forum is not as useful as the website, but don't be mistaken. This designer will not charge you a fee, for example, like Taba.ru. Once you create a forum, you can turn it into a website, of course, if you know how to do it. If you are not trained in this, it is possible to find lessons on the Internet. Let's say you've created a website and are wondering what to do next. And then you need to do the following: create a working and beautiful banner for your website. Then leave the site quiet for a while and move on to the next stage.

Social networks are huge cities in which users live. Here you can both make enemies and find friends. Find something interesting to do, develop some talents, fall in love and create a relationship, etc. Remember one very important rule: Your page on social networks is your Passport. Name, nickname, profile, avatar, quotes, signatures, data, it is advisable to fill out all this beautifully, without errors and so that it is truthful. There is no need to write that you, for example, are a Dragon Hunter, that you are 900 years old and that you are immortal. People will just think you're crazy. If you like Fantasy, then use your virtual profile when joining Fantasy-themed Communities, groups, and guilds on Social Networks. There your virtual data will be appreciated. And so let's continue about social networks. The VKontakte website is ideal for communication. There you can play applications, listen to music, watch videos, chat, join communities, perhaps find a soulmate, and, of course, gain a little reputation. And this can be achieved quite easily in VKontakte. Message multiple people, send friend requests, then like and comment on users' photos and posts. With just a little, you will be able to make a lot of friends, which will give you some advantages in your goal. Create your own group on some interesting topic, invite friends and upgrade the group. Of course, the group won’t become great in a month, but you still have to try. And so let's move on to other sites. Odnoklassniki, Flirchi, Photo Country, My World, etc. They also have the opportunity to earn a reputation. In general, social networks are useful places where they can help you achieve your dreams. If you have found enough friends, then ask them to register on your site. Maybe even some will agree to be moderators on your site and help improve the site. Everything is in your hands and your ability to communicate with people.

Chats and Forums.

In addition to social networks, there are other resources. You can chat in chat rooms, but it won't give you much reputation. Forums are a different matter; on forums you can get a normal amount of fame. It all depends on the forum you choose, given that there are a lot of different forums on the Internet on different topics. The choice is yours. On the forums you can learn a lot or teach someone useful things. Let's say there is a forum on the topic of Cooking, and you know some kind of unique recipe. And you can post your recipe in the recipe section with your copyright. Forums are certainly more complicated than Social Networks, but no less useful.

Thematic sites.

If you are a fan of anime, music, computer games, manga, comics, etc., then it will be useful for you to register on thematic sites. There it will be easier for you to find a common language with users. Because you will have common interests. The most important thing is to find a common language with people and always be a cool person. Always remember that no matter what happens, stay calm and be sociable.

Talents.

Discover your talents of poetry, vocals, drawing, photography, journalist and apply them in your life. If you are talented, then fame will come easier. Put your feelings into your works so that the readers of your works will enjoy reading, say, your poems. Never think about plagiarism. This is not only prohibited by the rules, but it will also discourage you from creating anything of your own. Every person has talents, they just need to be awakened.

Fame, power, material well-being are, perhaps, the most favorite “goodies” of all humanity. Why not? Agree that you also sometimes thought about how to become famous. Let's talk about how realistic this is in the modern world.

Is the thirst for fame good or bad?

Some people condemn the desire to become famous - they say that there is something of pride in this, and pride, as we know, is sinful in all religions. Let's think logically. Bad is causing harm to other people.

Fame can be used in different ways. A considerable number of stars, actors, and performers lead a healthy lifestyle, promote sports, call for help for the sick all over the world, and open hospitals and special centers for children. It is unlikely that these people would have achieved even one percent of the results from their actions if they were not famous. Therefore, fame can become a ladder to a right life. Feel free to ask yourself the question “how to become famous” and achieve your goal.

When does this desire arise?

Perhaps, even at an early age, the desire for universal fame appears. “How to become famous in kindergarten? How to become famous at school? - these questions arise in the minds of very young people.

Popularity is quite beneficial - people recognize you, they want to be friends with you, boys carry briefcases, girls treat you to sweets. Further more. The older a person becomes, the more benefits he can derive from the fact that he is famous, even within the same educational institution or area where he lives.

At what level can you become famous?

Let's expand the scope and look at the situation on a larger scale. You can gain schoolwide fame by performing in KVN, amateur clubs, or by being a desperate hooligan.

At university or at work, things are about the same. Famous people include both kind, cheerful and resourceful people, as well as evil, scandalous personalities. What if we talk about a city or country? Is it possible and how to become famous for citizens of your state or the whole world? Of course. Let's figure out what needs to be done for this.

Where?

We live in an amazing time when everyone can become famous and famous, regardless of age, gender, nationality and place of residence. Also, your occupation, appearance, skills and abilities do not matter. Do only the beautiful and talented achieve fame? Haha, not at all! Thanks to the ever-expanding influence of television and the Internet, anyone can become famous. Therefore, the answer to the question “where” is incredibly simple - within walking distance from each of us!

How?

Striving for fame is striving for big money. Psychologists around the world never tire of repeating: “You don’t need to wish for big money, wish for your dreams to come true, and the money will come!” It's about the same with fame. Don’t ask yourself the question: “How to become famous on the Internet?” or “How to get worldwide fame?” Better set yourself the desire to find your path and follow it. Each of us is talented in something. Singing, dancing, the ability to play music, compose, draw, cook, make people laugh, create - these are not divine skills, but completely human abilities. Don't chase fame, even if you don't mind being famous - chase possible self-realization. This is what will make you happy, and this is what will bring you fame.

Why don't many talented people become famous?

Part of the reason lies in the fact that a person interferes with himself with the question: “How to become famous?” Instead of doing what he likes, he rushes from side to side. “Look, Dima made a video about cats and became famous. Cats have power, I’ll start making videos and become famous!” And instead of going your own way and doing what you do well (for example, writing poetry and lyrics), you shoot mediocre videos in the hope of success. What will happen? There will most likely not be a positive result.

Read biographies and so-called “success stories.” Not a single celebrity asked the question: “How to become a famous actress?” or “How to become famous?” It’s just that a person discovered his talent and did not hesitate to express it, to go his own way. And, like all talented people, fame came to him.

Believe me, Leonardo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt were not tormented by the question: “How to become a famous actor?”, otherwise they would not have come to anything. They simply did what was close to their spirit.

Path to glory

So, we have already figured out that in order to become famous, it is not necessary to go somewhere (for example, to conquer Moscow or other famous capitals of the world). We also concluded that an empty, unfounded desire for fame is a mistake that will not lead to anything good.

What to do in this case? How do people become famous?

First of all, you have to figure out what you're really good at. Let it be something that you really consider “yours”, not related to work. Believe me, every person is talented. Sometimes someone thinks that he does not have any innate abilities for the reason that he simply does not give them any outlet, does not develop his talents. What do you do best, what do you like to do, what makes you “high”? The answer to this question is the first step on the path to fame.

The second step is to give up the desire to become famous, replace it with the desire to become happy and the best in your business. How are these concepts related? It's very simple: when you do what you love, you should experience a flow of happiness. Do what you like to do every day - play sports, dance, sing, write, draw, cook, sculpt, play... Perhaps you are happy when you communicate with people or children or maybe make someone laugh? This is also a talent, so do it. If necessary, quit the job you hate - this way you will definitely not achieve what you want.

Stage three - let's release your creative energy. This means that you should not sing in the shower, but go on stage - participate in the show, shoot a video and post it on YouTube, look for producers, who, in turn, look for talent... The same goes for all other types creativity. Think about where you are missing and boldly go there.

Stage four - be open to everything. Nobody knows how life works. But here’s the paradox - it’s definitely designed so that we find what we’re looking for. Believe me, when you implement the previous three steps, opportunities will knock on your door. The main thing is to be open to them, to let them in.

Do not be afraid!

A huge obstacle is fear. Many people lack self-confidence even when they do something exceptionally well.

Either the parents raised them this way, or the external environment influenced them, but the person is afraid to express himself loudly. And it may happen like this: one day you (endowed, for example, with the gift of singing) will perform a song in karaoke. That same evening, a famous producer will be in this place. He will be delighted with your singing, come up to meet you and offer to work together. And you will refuse. Not because you don’t want to, but because you’re afraid. Therefore, another component of success is not to be afraid! Take risks, climb, make mistakes, fall - and still get up and try again. And those people who are afraid may never achieve anything at all, and all because of ephemeral fear.

About good and bad fame

Remember, at the beginning of the article we noted that you can become famous not only by being a kind and sympathetic person, but also by having an evil disposition? So it is, and therefore there is good and bad glory.

If you are interested in how you can become famous, then strive for good fame. Do good deeds, do what is dear to your heart. Scandal will not do anything good for you - you will not find real friends, comrades-in-arms, like-minded people. Imagine that in order to become famous, you will argue with your boss at work. Colleagues will treat you with caution and distrust, and the boss, instead of tolerating your antics, will simply say goodbye to you. Many individuals turn to crime not only for profit, but more for fame, and do not receive anything good except a prison term in places not so remote. This is not at all interesting, so go your own way.

Summing up

If you want to know how to become famous or how to become famous on the Internet, then you need to do the following: do what you like, create and be happy at the same time, be open to opportunities and not be afraid of anything.

Nothing can stop you from becoming famous except one person - yourself. And you can be both the greatest supporting force in your success and the biggest and most powerful hindrance. Always remember that luck and success favor the brave, so be open to everything and everyone. And one day the world will know about you and your talent.

Popularity, this is one of the earning opportunities, the achievement of which, like business development, is a complex process.

Becoming popular is not so easy, because thousands of people strive for this, but only a few achieve the highest level of success.

In any case, every person has a chance to become popular; you just need to choose the best path and strive to fulfill your dream.

An excellent option for gaining popularity is the Internet. An audience of millions of users can instantly learn about you or your activities.

Become popular

Through the Internet, quite a lot of people have become popular, whom everyone knows today. A striking example would be “Max +100500”, which started its activities practically from scratch, and now it is recognized on the streets.

There are quite a few such examples on the Internet, and it is worth noting that every Internet user is given this opportunity.

It is necessary to use every opportunity to “shine up” in front of a huge audience. The best option would be to implement something non-standard, for example, your own photographs, which will have several meanings.

If you decide become popular, then choose a niche in which you would like to promote yourself, because... It will be quite difficult to achieve popularity at the level of the entire Internet.

To spread information about yourself, use all highly visited resources, social networks, video hosting sites, etc. Achieve sharp popularity development It will be very difficult, because To do this, you will have to “blow up” the brains of users and present something like that.

As a rule, sharp growth occurs spontaneously, but you should not wait for it with folded arms, keep trying and spread the word.

If you can achieve popularity at least in some area, then this will already be a success. Even a small audience that recognizes you will allow you to earn money.

In order to gain popularity, you will be offered various interviews, materials will be created about you, etc., which together will allow you to generate income.

It is also worth noting that by owning popularity, you will be able to use a “personal brand”, in other words, promote your business through your own popularity.

Methods - tips that will definitely help you achieve popularity.

  1. Make the most handsome guy in the area (city) or a celebrity fall in love with you.
  2. Date this guy, go to various parties with him. Popularity, believe me, will not keep you waiting!
  3. Win a huge amount in the lottery.
  4. Almost all newspapers will know about you! They will “spin” your popularity to a crazy level.
  5. Write the lyrics to the song.
  6. Give it to someone or sell it. It's great if you sing it yourself, strumming guitar chords.
  7. Start a blog.
  8. First come up with a topic that will be interesting to a lot of people. Comment on what others have written (on blogs), respond to comments…. Do everything to ensure that your blog is noticed and not missed.
  9. Win some famous competition.
  10. Take first or second place so that they don’t forget about you. Then you will often appear on television screens. This “flickering” is the path to your popularity.
  11. Write a novel.
  12. Write a book! Even if it's not a novel! The first thing that must be present in it is the attractiveness of the plot.
  13. Become a mother of many children.
  14. In this case, popularity will definitely not pass you by! Let you have, for example, eight or ten children.
  15. Sing at a karaoke bar.
  16. Sing! Do not be shy! Sing even if you have no voice at all. You will still become popular.
  17. Get involved in some story.
  18. The main thing is that it shouldn’t matter to the police! Don't be rowdy or hooligan! You can, for example, gain popularity through parkour...
  19. Perform a feat.
  20. Ask the life of a child or an adult. Believe me! This will be an invaluable feat.
  21. Break the record.
  22. You can go to the mountains. In general, this is not the only record that you can break.
  23. Invent something.
  24. Think about what would be useful to a person and humanity as a whole. Develop a plan. Well, proceed according to the plan itself!
  25. Get active in apps.
  26. There are tons of them on the Internet! You will, however, get tired of clicking buttons. And this activity may seem boring to you.
  27. Leave a lot of messages on forums.
  28. Perhaps it is your message that will help the person solve the problem or problems.
  29. Become a regular customer (client) or visitor (visitor). What exactly? We answer: Beauty salon. Hair salon. Dentistry. Clinics. Club. Restaurant. Cafe. Taxi. The list could go on, but our goal was just to give examples.
  30. Call the radio.
  31. Tell us what worries you. Or just congratulate someone on the holiday in an original way. You will be remembered!
  32. Go to a concert of a singer you love and sing on stage with him.
  33. They will broadcast reports about you, they will come to your home... You risk getting tired of popularity!
  34. Post your photos online regularly.
  35. Update them, comment on them, change them. The photos will attract a lot of attention.
  36. Be sociable and positive.
  37. Such people have always been “in value.” Wherever they are! A positive mood and interesting communication is something that is very often lacking.
  38. Date several guys at once or change them frequently. Cruel! But if you want to achieve popularity in any way, act and don’t stop!

There are girls (and guys) who achieve popularity in the following way:

  1. They create a “left” page on a social network.
  2. They choose a “victim”.
  3. They write all sorts of obscene nasty things or crazy lies on her “wall”

You can't do that! Because the page of “trolls” (as those who do such bad things are called) can be “frozen” or blocked. But the main thing is different! You can’t “play” with human feelings, you can’t trample them like dirt. In life, absolutely everything comes back like boomerangs. But the return “hits” much more painfully!

How to be popular in your team (at work):

  1. You can dress nicely.
  2. Look after yourself.
  3. Be super interesting in conversation.
  4. Prove that you are a responsible person.
  5. Help out your colleagues if they ask.

How to be popular at a disco:

  1. Be sexy.
  2. Dance beautifully.
  3. Take the initiative in communicating with the opposite sex.
  4. Invite young people to dance.
  5. Have fun from the heart.

How to be popular at school (if you are still studying there):

  1. Flaunt your organizational skills.
  2. Take part in various activities.
  3. Let's copy lessons if you're asked.
  4. Dress fashionably to keep up with your classmates.
  5. Do everything you can to be inundated with Valentine's cards on Valentine's Day.

How to become popular on the street:

  1. Walk beautifully.
  2. Smile sincerely.
  3. Attract mesmerizing looks.
  4. Do not refuse to meet the opposite sex.
  5. Do everything so that your neighbors - grandmothers who sit on benches at the entrances - talk about you.

Advice to girls who managed to become popular:

  1. Beware of the “star disease.” Remember that there are ups and downs in life. And then it will be very painful to fall if something goes wrong.
  2. Be friendly to people. Being popular doesn't give you the right to treat people badly.
  3. Don't humiliate someone who isn't popular. You, too, were not always the person you are now!
  4. Help others become popular. Give recommendations, advice. Don't be afraid of competition!
  5. Stay human! This is the most difficult and most important. It’s a pity that few people think about this (especially lately).
  6. Regulate your self-esteem. If it is constantly too high, people will turn away from you, and you will remain popular alone.
  7. Never gain popularity by using anyone. You can't do that under any circumstances! You will bring trouble upon yourself because all actions come back. These are not fairy tales, but the “justice” of reality.